Natural Weaning: Breastfeeding a Three Year Old Whilst Pregnant

This video was filmed when I was seven weeks pregnant and I wanted to share with you how breastfeeding during my first trimester was going and the changes we were experiencing.

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Reminding Yourself That You ARE a Good and Capable Parent

I’ve had a terrible week. Little Cat (3) has been very hard work indeed, angry, blaming, purposefully contrary and just not very pleasant to be around at all. I have been tired, hormonal and reacting in ways which are very out of character for me. There have been moments where I felt utter despair and wanted to run away and hide.

Today I had one of those moments. I felt so stressed and angry. I couldn’t understand why he was being so very horrible to me. I stormed upstairs for a moments peace and quiet and caught sight of my book (Trust Me, I’m a Toddler) sitting on the bookshelf. Suddenly, I wanted to remember the calm and loving parent I know I am capable of being. I wanted to remember what I know deep down, to get some perspective and see the world from his point of view.

I spent half an hour reading and breathing, then I heard Little Cat crying. He was having a dispute with his Daddy (who was also very fed up) over changing the t-shirt he had been wearing for four days straight. I walked in and somehow, everything had changed. I felt calm and in control. Rather than an angry and disrespectful child, I saw my little boy, tired, and comfortable in his t-shirt, not understanding why he needed to get changed.

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How Can I Get My Child To Stop Spitting?

We are all human and we all have our triggers that frustrate and annoy us. For many parents, this includes the habit of spitting. We find it unacceptable and want to put an immediate stop to it.

But when we tell out child “No!” they only do it all the more! How are we supposed to deal with that and break this unpalatable habit?

The first thing to do is to look at it from the child’s point of view. There is a reason why they are spitting. This could be sensory fulfilment, a way of releasing frustrations, or simply exploring and learning about what their body can do. Telling a child “No!” is very frustrating for them because it only deals with the issue at a surface level and doesn’t address the motivation behind the action. So the child becomes even more determined to spit!

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How To Become More Confident Breastfeeding In Public

Breastfeeding in public can be a nerve-wracking  experience, whether you are feeding a newborn or a four year old. In this video I share how you can increase your confidence and feed in public without fear or shame.

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Parenting Support

I offer a personal parenting support service via email on a variety of parenting issues. I can support parents through:

  • Natural parenting through the newborn stage
  • Issues in the toddler stage
  • Behaviour management and rethinking discipline
  • Rebuilding connection
  • Trusting your child
  • Supporting children through big feelings
  • Unschooling and natural learning

I offer a two week package with unlimited email support. This will usually be charged at £90, but if you book in the next 72 hours you will get the complete package for only £70!  Fees must be paid in advance of our support sessions.

During our conversations I will offer practical and respectful solutions to help you move forward and make real changes in your parenting journey. In parenting there are no quick fixes, and behaviour issues cannot be fixed overnight, however, with the solutions and adaptations I recommend, you can start to make those changes and get on the path to happy, peaceful, mutually respectful parenting.

If you would like to book a coaching session please contact me:

 

“After a conversation with Sam, I felt as if a wave of calm had washed over me and I knew exactly what I needed to do next.”

Mum of two.